Advice please - What to do
Advice please - What to do Fattofitukk
Hi all,
I have a genuine question for a more biased audience.
I was 116kg / 255lbs in July 2020, height of the pandemic, since this time I have managed to get to 93kg / 205lbs.
My wife supported my diet, I bought a few supplements and I consistently trained. My best lifts were conv deadlift 160kg / 352lbs, squat 111kg / 244lbs and bench 87.5kg / 192lbs. I was training for a strongman comp and a week before the comp, they cancelled it. I trained for months for this only to be cancelled, I was gutted. After this point, I went on a 3 week holiday, applied for a promotion, work got busy and the result is through excuses I stopped training for 1 month and stopped creatine.
To me personally, I want to get to a low weight with a healthy diet but I also want to continue strongman, get the right supplements to help and personally I would have no qualm taking roids to assist, I have never taken them just to say. But I seen my strength potential and I want to capitalise, I don't want to be the guy in my 50/60s saying I could have lifted more if I trained.
My wife of 13 years, is not being supportive now, she deals with the finances and food and cooking, wont let me deal with it, so i cant hit my macros properly, see doesn't want me weight lifting, even though my hiatal hernia has got smaller (just got checked up) and honestly if I get my workout and diet right, roids will just help with the recovery process.
I feel like I cant give my wife an ultimatum but I have to say the gym is my therapy, it keeps me doing extreme things or urges, it calms me down and gives me a goal too.
I am sorry for the long novel but what would you do? Would you say to your wife I am going to do this and if you don't like it I'm going or do I just stop weightlifting and try and live a norm life.
https://ift.tt/eA8V8J November 28, 2021 at 12:47AM Bodybuilding.com Forums
I have a genuine question for a more biased audience.
I was 116kg / 255lbs in July 2020, height of the pandemic, since this time I have managed to get to 93kg / 205lbs.
My wife supported my diet, I bought a few supplements and I consistently trained. My best lifts were conv deadlift 160kg / 352lbs, squat 111kg / 244lbs and bench 87.5kg / 192lbs. I was training for a strongman comp and a week before the comp, they cancelled it. I trained for months for this only to be cancelled, I was gutted. After this point, I went on a 3 week holiday, applied for a promotion, work got busy and the result is through excuses I stopped training for 1 month and stopped creatine.
To me personally, I want to get to a low weight with a healthy diet but I also want to continue strongman, get the right supplements to help and personally I would have no qualm taking roids to assist, I have never taken them just to say. But I seen my strength potential and I want to capitalise, I don't want to be the guy in my 50/60s saying I could have lifted more if I trained.
My wife of 13 years, is not being supportive now, she deals with the finances and food and cooking, wont let me deal with it, so i cant hit my macros properly, see doesn't want me weight lifting, even though my hiatal hernia has got smaller (just got checked up) and honestly if I get my workout and diet right, roids will just help with the recovery process.
I feel like I cant give my wife an ultimatum but I have to say the gym is my therapy, it keeps me doing extreme things or urges, it calms me down and gives me a goal too.
I am sorry for the long novel but what would you do? Would you say to your wife I am going to do this and if you don't like it I'm going or do I just stop weightlifting and try and live a norm life.
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